Honoring Traditions, Old & New: One More Holiday at Home

Twinkling lights. Holiday music. Memories of family and friends’ gatherings filled with warmth and laughter.

 For many seniors, we often hear that they will move but just want to spend one last holiday in their home. The thought of maintaining holiday traditions brings them comfort, even if health challenges have made this somewhat unrealistic.  The holiday season is seen as a time of joy and celebration. However, the memories of loved ones lost, the empty seats at the table, or the shift in family traditions can make the most festive season feel overwhelming and talking about a move even that more difficult.

It’s completely normal for adult children to often delay a move until after the holidays. It feels like the kind and thoughtful choice. One more season at home for my parent(s) where nothing changes, full of familiar smells and sounds. It’s easier, less emotional, more comfortable.

Unfortunately, waiting can come with hidden costs — not because families aren’t trying, but because the holidays naturally intensify what aging adults struggle with most:

• More time alone as the weather gets colder

• Higher risk of falls due to icy weather and lower mobility

• Disrupted routines as schedules change

• Medication mix-ups during holiday chaos

• Greater caregiver strain of adult children who are helping

If your loved one wants one more holiday at home, talk about creating new holiday rituals that make space for change while holding onto the memories they will always hold close in their hearts.